WW3 has just begun, in a quiet suburb near London UK.....*sigh*

I wish it was EastEnders......I would be picking up the remote DAMN quick!

 

Snafu, I wouldn't know her mother if I passed her in the street. However, IF this continues into next week I'll march her to her house myself and MAKE her tell her. I fail to see how I am being deceitful though, it's not my story to tell.

 

Either way if they become the other grandparents or not, you will recognize them well enough. I would never forgive someone that new my daughter was pregnant and they aborted. I would be pissed if I knew those same adults kept this information from me because for I would like to be there in the kids lives during the preganacy. If she aborts and dosn't tell her mom, wouldn't that be decite? Wouldn't she have to keep it to herself forever?

 

Damn, I hope they don't take that step.

I have two worlds of belief that I follow in my life, one is my faith and the other is the devotion to personal responsibility I feel is necessary to live in a society.

In my world, killing an unborn child is something that would destroy me completely so I think I can relate to what you are feeling at this point.


As you already pointed out, there are thousands of loving people that would love to take this child and raise it as their own. Life is a miracle, it should not be created without proper consideration but if it is created in that way, two wrongs do not make a right.

How far down the road of despair has society gone when we make even the womb a dangerious place for children.




I know the balancing point you are trying to keep FW and I respect it. I don't think I could have kept it up this long. I think you have given them the facts and been neutral long enough though and need to help them not do something so horrible.

I will pray for you and them for the next few days, God bless you to find the right words.

 

Yes, but not MY deceit. She is an adult. IF she chooses not to have a relationship with her mother then it is not my place to force the issue. I can only advise her as to what to do, not force her. I have already mentioned the fact that IF she chooses not to share this with her mother then it is a thing that she will have to bear alone for the rest of her life...along with mentioning just how much it is likely to mess with her head at a later date.

 

Thanks for the prayers Timesjoke, much appreciated. I did speak to my son last night. I didn't get angry or emotional, just told him how I felt in a calm and reasonable manner.

I said that I could quite understand how it could be thought of as acceptable to use the morning after pill IF you suspect that 'something' might have happened. After all, how many pregnancies fail in the first few days and we never know about it? If the pregnancy never attaches to the lining of the womb then it could never be thought of as a viable life.

I also told him that to leave it until almost 3 months into the pregnancy was, as far as I was concerned, on a par with putting a gun to someone's head and pulling the trigger. I let him know that I found the whole thing deeply upsetting and that should they choose to continue with the pregnancy they would not be alone. I made it VERY clear to him that on NO account should she be made to feel that she HAD to abort to please those around her.........He got my point.

 

Update please, has the girl told her mother?

Will they keep the child?

Get married?

ETC......