Not me, and I'm a minister and have been to a few gravesides. The dead are dead. Dust to dust, as the Good Book notes. I do anticipate talking to a few of them in the next life, but not in this one.
Careful. A lot of guys here get bent out of shape when it comes to drug humor. But then again, they get the same way with any humor.
And you've never seen an athiest grave before? If they lack the ability to see the facetiousness of that statement, then they seriously need to relax.