I am a happy guy. I always go out of my way to smile and be jovial with people. It is my mission in life to put a smile on peoples face….. We were just at dinner. The young lady is working hard and I can see she is a bit frazzled so I put an extra effort in trying to give the young lady a smile. She brings my drink and I say “thank you, dear”…. She responds, “that isn’t my pronoun”…. I am old with poor hearing and think I misunderstood and start to laugh with her when my wife elbows me…. Hard too. Knowing this is the international signal for shut-up, I zipped my mouth and said nothing more. When the young lady left the table, I was then fully schooled on the 21st century meaning of pronouns. Even to the point that the university now demands a pronoun title on the staff emails!!…. OK, so why do we have these kids so twisted up in knots over meaningless phooey? We have these kids so deeply troubled over such inane issues…. It’s no wonder young people take their own lives so often these days….. Yes, this is utter craziness. We have to fix this insane world before we are all lost.
Pronouns are all the rage among the leftists (and have been for a while). It's all part of the plan. https://mercatornet.com/for-gender-marxists-pronouns-are-the-latest-front-in-the-revolution/21575/ "This is what happens when activists carry the spear for social justice, ever alert for opportunity to stick it to oppression. When one sees herself as a symbol of a cause, rather than as one individual interacting with another, the temptation to overstate a perceived grievance can be seductive. As a 1960s activist once said: “The issue is never the issue. The issue is always the revolution.” Thus, whether it is wealth, social status or gender privilege, the issue is really about dismantling the power of those who hold it. For gender Marxists, pronouns are the latest patch of hotly contested terrain in the ongoing revolution."
So much in this world that deserves genuine concern and here we are teaching these young people to be so twisted up and offended over absolutely nothing… These poor kids don’t stand a chance.
Don’t let it bother you, MD. Pronouns are for the person speaking to choose and for the listener to choose to acknowledge . . . or not.
The worst is the “They and them” crowd who believes they can hop onto the oppression bandwagon by pretending to have no gender. it’s rooted in my generations biggest hazard - narcissism - based in the belief that a single person today can override biological reality and truth in the name of “creating their own purpose” or whatever.
“Misgendering” on my college campus, if decided as “malicious”, may result in title IX being filed against you. The university could suspend you. just recently it was retconned into the civil rights act apparently, so now we are expected to indulge their sexual delusions.
Young people grasp onto their causes with a deep passion. It has been that way since the 1960’s. What my generation has done is exploited that passion for political gain and it is absolutely unconscionable.
Title IX does not require your university to act against students. It’s sole purpose is to hold the institution accountable . . . not members of the student body.
The world has moved on and you're incapable of change. I am roughly the same age you are. I may not have grown up having to think much about pronouns either, but at least I recognize that the world doesn't revolve completely around my upbringing. You are, as they say, a dinosaur. You'll never adapt to a changing world you can't or won't understand and you seem to fault everyone else for your own inadequacies. First off, it is inappropriate to call any young person you don't know dear, or sweetie, or honey. Frankly, it's condescending. If this service worker was frazzled as you say and probably overworked, her trigger may have been a bit shorter and you should have recognized that and help her by keeping your conversation to a minimum. It's just common sense. Step outside of yourself once in a while and try to empathize with someone that isn't you instead of blaming everyone else for the things you simply can't comprehend. Is it really so difficult to believe that the real problem might just be you? I'm over in Korea right now visiting my son and his wife and if you want a lesson in stepping outside of yourself, try visiting a country where you don't speak the language. It really puts other people in perspective. I have seen post after post from you relating some experience or another where you seem to find fault with those you seem to misunderstand whether they be young people, liberals, immigrants, whatever, and you always seem to think the same thing. That they must be wrong because that is not how you were taught. Maybe, just maybe, the actual problem is a little closer to home if you know what I mean.
Progressives are trying to move the world too far, and world isn't letting them. I know you're a slow learner, like the indignant kid in front of the candy stand at checkout counter, but you'll figure it out eventually . . . after a while, those burdened by your ways will finally decide that all of the bad habits you've learned now need to be broken.
Again, it's always someone else that is the problem when your kind is too damn slow to keep up. Faulting others never seems to get old with you throwbacks.
We don't embrace your advanced perspective because we're slow . . . now that's funny! We don't embrace your rushed, short-sighted ideas because we look longer and harder through the haze to see where we'll land before leaping.
What a load of bullshit. I have absolutely no problem whatsoever addressing someone by his, her or their preferred pronouns. However, when I ask to be addressed by MY preferred pronouns which are “BOSS” and “JEFE”, the alphabet soup crowd refuses to do so. So, until I get the respect I deserve (which is exactly what THEY are asking), then I’ll address anyone however I feel. What’s fair is fair, right? I’m tired of dinosaurs like you not recognizing my preferred pronouns. From now on, please address me as “BOSS” or “JEFE”. I’ll even accept “EL JEFE”. Thank you.
Your just twisting yourself into knots. Saying that the other side moves too fast and accusing me of being slow is a prime example of reaching a conclusion and then altering the facts to fit them. You do this effortlessly through years of practice to the point that you've lost any awareness of your own behavior. It's so easy to predict that the rest of us can see it coming a mile away. You'll go to your graves never aware of your own misguided, twisted, pathetic delusions.
Altering the facts? Twisting myself in knots? Sorry, but there's no contradiction there at all. Thinking slowly and acting prematurely usually go hand-in-hand . . . we see it from Democrats all too often. I know you all fancy yourselves deep thinkers . . . the only deep thinking you do is deep in the BS.
You're just flailing now. You know, the very powerful and the very stupid have one thing in common. They don't alter their views to fit the facts, they alter the facts to fit the views, which can be uncomfortable if you happen to be one of the facts that needs altering.
Why should we alter our views when they already jibe with the facts? Speaking of altering the facts to fit one’s views, didn’t a bunch of democrats tout Joe Biden as qualified to be President of the United States? Didn't a bunch of prominent democrats alter the facts to insulate Hillary Clinton from blame for Benghazi? Didn't a bunch of prominent liberal news organizations alter the facts to protect Joe Biden from prosecution of his son? Didn't a bunch of prominent democrats alter the facts to get FISA warrants issued to surveillance Carter Page?
Jn only wants to talk to MD? Not surprising, MD is an honorable man and has taken lil Joeys insults to his character over and over. MD, you’re a way better man than me! Joe is going to defend his spawn, ya know, the pronoun crowd. If they completely disappear his paycheck would also. Many of his indoctrinated yutes are coming to the realization that the JN type education is worthless and they don’t want to pay for it. Joey is all in for you and I to pay for that worthless education and fund his retirement.